After 30+ years of nearly solid perpetual...my wife never says a thing about my grow. (if she wants to be high she knows better)
The only time I ever had bud rot indoors was the only time I went on vacation. Watered everything heavily...and left. Came back to total destruction.
never again. Same thing with folks coming over. Didn't have anyone but service guys (forced situations) in house for 20+ years...LOL. I had enough sleepless nights w/o the extra intrusions and questions. (from the wife or anyone else) I sure don;t miss >that< shit....